Okay so I have been dating again after taking a break for several months. I have gone out with a couple of guys and why is that all it takes to remind me why I stopped dating in the first place?
Zack
I went out with Zack and he wanted to meet and have coffee at the santa monica 3rd street promenade just after 6pm on a Thursday night. I thought great we can have coffee and talk and grab a bite. Okay so I get there and we didnt get coffee we didnt get food and talked for about 2.5 hours. Now, I found this very inconsiderate. I really didn't get to talk i basically listed to his big mouth tellme stories and talk about himself. My way of thinking is if you want me to listen to you get me a drink or something to eat it is during dinner time. I didnt enjoy that at all. I did agree to go out on a second date but he cancelled the day before and now we are planning our next date on Tuesday. He wants to walk around Westwood and talk. I walk around Westwood five days a week since I work in Westwood. I am going to cancel. I don't want to listen to anyone anymore. I have reached my limit.
Doug
I went out with Doug and had an excellent first date. He was great. We met for coffee and actually drank coffee. Then we went out for dinner and had awesome sushi. I really enjoyed it. We even had a kiss at the end of the date. We planned a second date a week later and that was a total bust. He didnt give me a hug or kiss hello. He barely spoke to me or engaged in coversation. He only wanted to argue with me about things and make offensive comments. He took me to dinner and a movie. The dinner was diner food. Which I wasn't a fan of. It is all fried food and I explained to him that i needed a drink to unwind from my day and he takes me to a diner. He obviously didn't listen to what I said. The last guy that took me to this place pissed me off. The memory was there. We get to the movie and he keeps changing seats because he has to be in the middle. i dont know what that matters. I thought he was weird. None of this wierdness came out in the first date. He then continues to call himself a "self proclaimed genius". This guy had a nose full of boogars. Wouldn't a genius figure out a way to clear up his nose so his date wouldn't have to look at that? Anyway, he didn't talk, try to hold my hand or kiss me. I honestly don't know what happened but oh well.
I want to be mad at someone and there isn't anyone. I don't like any of these guys. Lame and Lamer need to go. It is amazing to me how someone can be attractive on paper and then in person they are just awful. I honestly don't think that I am being unreasonable or asking for too much in a companion. Oh well.
Doug and I dont have another date scheduled and I dont think we will. I didn't get any friendly vibes from him at all.
